We have been together 10 years and at times it has been a roller coaster ride. To start with everything was fine. We had freedom and hardly any responsibilities. Now with 2 kids and busy jobs it is like we don’t know each other anymore. We hardly have quality time together and I really miss that. We decided to do something about it and get some counselling. It turned out it was the best thing we did. We learned about what we both valued the most, how to improve our communication and what to do to improve our relationship. We found the counselling process really helpful and we learned a lot more about each other and what we want from our lives. Now we still have our challenging moments, but we talk much more to work things out without fighting all the time. We also make sure we have more quality time together. I would definitely recommend giving it a go.